Camilla’s thigh harness is lightweight and probably easy to wear due to how light it is. The problem I came across is my bum isn’t big enough to fill it out. I’m not sure if I have an average bum or not, but it seems to me you need a good sized bum to fill this out. Not all is lost though. I have a wonderfully hand husband and he is working on making it smaller for me. But I think it’s going to be a lot of work and special parts needed. May not be worth it for some, but my hubby wants what he wants.