While the thigh harness didn’t fit my bum, this harness fit perfectly. I’ll admit that it’s a bit of a challenge to figure out and get it on. It’s not something I can do alone given it needs to be sized once you do get it on. The faux leather straps are very lightweight and easy to wear. Once my husband has resized and fixed the thigh harness to fit my little bum, we’ll have a great time together when I wear this.